Someone answered my recent question about virginity saying that they are not beautiful enough to lose their virginity.
This honestly breaks my heart, that you think that you are not beautiful.
So many people out there like to make others believe they are not beautiful, but in my own personal opinion there is something beautiful about EVERYONE, beauty exists in EVERYONE.
Ugly should not be a word that is acceptable to use to describe someone’s appearance and body.
I am so sorry to anyone out there that feels that they are “ugly” or they are not beautiful.
Society is extremely distorted and they make many people out there feel ugly, I wish I could change that.
If you are comfortable sharing, why are you a virgin?
Do you feel pressured to be or is it a personal choice?
I find that using vibrators is not enough.
Using vibrators is just not satisfying.
How often do you all think about having sex (virgins only)?
I am just curious, because as a virgin I think about sex a lot.
Sigh.
Being an adult virgin can be annoying at times.
The stereotypes and the judgment that is brought upon me is just getting to be ridiculous.
I do not judge people that have sex often, so why am I being judged?
I have not been on in a while-
However, everyone who answered me about my last post, all of your answers were awesome! You all are awesome!
Sorry I have not been on lately, I wish I had more stuff to put on your dash!
As A Virgin
I think it is especially difficult when you are interested in someone who is not a virgin. For me, I feel so behind, like they are so advanced. It tends to make me feel uncomfortable. Anyone else?
Hi Everyone!
I just wanted to say, after reading the hardships that people face with being a virgin, hang in there!
I know it is REALLY hard to ignore what your body physically wants. (I, myself, have purchased items to help with that and hold me off until I actually have sex for the first time-there is absolutely nothing wrong with doing that and you shouldn’t be embarassed to do so!)
As far as environmental concerns (friends, random people, family) saying all of these different things to you-try your best to ignore it and not let it get to you.
People are ALWAYS going to say something, whether you are a virgin or not.
Anonymous asked: I'm so glad that I found this blog. I'm a virgin who is "a virgin on the outside and a sex fanatic on the inside". And although I probably could have had it with a few guys, I rejected it. I have a faith that says it's a sin to have sex before marriage so it's habitual for me to say no. But in all honesty, I sometimes wish I didn't. Like I said, I'm a sex fanatic so I'm constantly thinking, reading, and dreaming about it. But I desire a deep relationship and would rather wait than be sorry.
I am happy you are happy to have found this blog!
I definitely know what you mean-virgin on the outside, sex fanatic on the inside. I can definitely relate to that.
I respect your choices for remaining a virgin, stay true to yourself, the desires can wait. You do not want to put yourself in a situation that will make you feel disappointment towards yourself. (:
Anonymous asked: The way I see it. I will willing part with my virginity when I met a boy you wants to touch me emotionally first, and sexually last.
That is how I feel as well, that is my personal choice.
Alot of people may view that as stupid, but everyone should respect the decisions that people make regarding their virginity.
